flirting tips in the nightclub and/or bar

The bars and night club aren’t just for those to drown their sorrows by gulping down mugs of beer or dance till they drop, it can be however okay to flirt either for fun or intently. It can be lots of fun and usually have hundreds of flirting opportunities. It may lead to some being good while some may not. Since it has a relaxed and exciting atmosphere with hyped songs and booze all around, it can sure gear up a person’s sexuality to attract the opposite sex. Nevertheless, there may have a few safety measures before giving a flutter to those eyelids.

• For those hot strangers that approach you and asking “may I buy you a drink?” are usually in the movies. For that to happen is like waiting for cows to return home. So you just need to make the first move. These places most likely involve alcohol and you need to be careful on how much you consume before start flirting. Usually about 3 or 4 rums will do the trick as this will make you look slightly more alluring. Somehow you will look more appealing as well. However, you don’t necessarily need to have an all alcohol free night just to get attention or don’t even drink at all, just so beware on how many shots you take in. It will affect people’s judgment.

• Also, a non-verbal communication like body language can also do the trick and is more powerful than words alone. Eye contact, smiling widely, head tilting to one side, exposing thigh, running fingers through hair etc are usually those flirting signals. Smiling can also do a great affect which means pleasure. Do beware not to go overboard as there will be real danger that might inflict the mind of getting a one night stand. Well, unless you want to then by all means.

• Furthermore, in this venue, do remember that you had just met this person, so just follow the flow and take things leisurely. If you really don’t want to cross the border, just say no, don’t be afraid. Stopping now can save a lot of trouble later. As they say prevention is better than cure. Besides, you may not know if the person is really what they say they are. Also, never get drinks from strangers even if they may look like a good person. You’ll never know what is popped into the drink.

• Remember not to drink too much if you’re driving, it will cause a lot of problems later or get caught by police. Be responsible or bring a friend who doesn’t drink. You can also try calling a taxi or your friend who is not together with you to drive you home. At least you can have a safe trip home. Never ever hitch a ride from stranger’s car or worse to get into a ride to the person you just flirted. You wouldn’t want your house location to be known and is already spell dangerous once you enter the car.

So there you have it, go ahead and flirt safely.